About Love - Cinlok

One day, one of my friends visited me and asked me to talk to him. Complicated matter brought to his life. He had two girlfriend and confused about them. He want to released all, because all of these things has make him very tired.

As a friend, all that I can do was only listened to him. I just want him to stayed focus on his goal, don't get too emotional. It was not good to finish your problem by having another problem on it.I want him to consistent and persistent to what he has got, didn't do something that makes his time wasted.

Somebody must really concern about his needs and wants, somebody must stand up on his own foot. He must become an independent person before seeking for love. Because a love will not changed by the condition we are in right now. Don't let one trapped by "Cinlok" a.k.a Cinta Lokasi or Love happened because you were in the same condition and time.

Cinlok was a condition where you became depent on each other, most tricky when it wear the mask of a love. Because of needs and condition one became depending to another. The question is, whenever the condition and time changed, can you still depend on it? Would it be the same? Would it be still a love left when  you cannot depend on the other because of the changing?

I think, it would be different when you were in love with someone, and you can see that someone real quality. You can love him or her because you see the trully him or her. You should become someone independent first! You give the proof of yourself to the world. And after getting the true qualification, you can see love more clearly. Believe it !